DARE TRUE NUDISTS TO STOP COLLECTING FRIENDS REGARDLESS
Have noticed that some true & real nudists here accept FR from anybody, no matter blank profiles, no matter nude pictures (even all clothed pictures or no pictures at all), and no matter inappropriate comments. This only contributes to further spread the fake profile plague that most of them complain about. Dare the real true nudists here to avoid being friend collectors and to live up to TN's vision and expectations.
You can be too sensitive to fake profiles. Most TN members are
genuine. So, why not accept friend requests? BTW I can't see that turning down friend requests is at all daring. If you think some might be fakes accepting them is more daring.
I agree with you PAN, I have, for a while now not accepted any FRIENDS REQUEST that have blank profiles, non nude pics or no pics at all. I have closed my pics to everyone except FRIENDSFREINDS ONLY because I feel the people who will not post pics and nothing more than gaulkers, and stopping them from viewing them would go a long way to eliminating them from the site. I hear the excuse time and time again that someone might see them and tell others they know, but it they do say anything don't that put them in a position of being asked how do you know, It pretty much says that they are looking too and that wouldintimidatethem too. Just a thought.
I agree with you PAN, I have, for a while now notaccepted any FRIENDS REQUEST that have blank profiles, non nudepics or no pics at all. I have closed my pics to everyone exceptFRIENDSFREINDS ONLY because I feel the people who will notpost pics and nothing more than gaulkers, and stopping them fromviewing them would go a long way to eliminating them from the site.I hear the excuse time and time again that someone might see themand tell others they know, but it they do say anything don't thatput them in a position of being asked how do you know, It prettymuch says that they are looking too and thatwouldintimidatethem too. Just athought.
Much of the problem is they never read your profile before asking
for a friend request...I want genuine nudist friends here so I will
not even accept request that are not certified, blank profiles, no
pic or clothed, and really not had some communication prior and I
am in the process of remove those "friends" that seem to
think that friendships are one sided...I seem to be the one that is
always reaching out to them. having bin on this site now for 4 mouths now I'm
getting a real feel for those who really want to be friends.
BTW I can't see that turning down friend requests is atall daring. If you think some might be fakes accepting them is moredaring.
I can see that u changed the last part of your message.
Accepting all FR's is as easy as clicking on accept button.
What's difficult and daring is going through those profiles
and determining which ones would make good TN friends, and even
more difficult and daring, choosing those who will become
real-life friends; I only have a couple of the
latter...
I usually check out their profiles and face pic first, then their comment history.Any nice pix is a bonus.I have made friends with some suspect members in the early days, but they have all been removed.I think.Latest acceptance rate is 80%
There's a certain intolerance in some of these posts. I personally don't accept FR from those who have no pics, but other than that accept them all. I think we need to accept that the social media definition of friend is different to the real world, and just accept people have different views and different ways of using the site. It doesn't make you a bad person...
I can accept friends with no pictures, however not those with an empty profile, who don't find it important to interact and just want to perve. They can, as my profile is open, I think it is. I tread this site here, as if I'm nude in public, at any nudist venue or clothing optional beach, where anyone can see me nude, so what? I'm not doing anything wrong by enjoying my freedom with those who do likewise. Perhaps it may encourage others, who haven't enjoyed this kind of freedom before to try it for themselves and become part of us.