Im 47 and have had trouble with getting and maintaining an erection for ever. About 5 years ago I stopped getting my morning one and then stopped getting any at all a year after that. In that year my Doctor put me on a statin for cholesterol and a blood pressure medication. Then gave my cialis for daily use at 10 mg . I was then able to get an hard for a few years but that stopped working also until I stopped all prescription meds and went with herbs to control blood pressure, cholesterol with good success. I also started taking a hormone regulating herb called DIM which gave me back my morning wood and also helped me get quicker erections in general. If I skip the morning or evening dose no morning wood the next morning. For all who are interested research phytoestrogens in males. Thats what steered me in the right direction. Any other questions feel free to ask.
I've noticed just this year that I'm not getting the erection I used to even last year. I have to go to a naughty club and play with a few gentlemen to get it back. I'm just a gentle hands on type that seems to get most aroused among men now. I think it's the touch, they seem to know how to operate the machinery. Strange when most of my life I was married and thought I was pretty straight. Another string to the bow. I only seem to be attracted to older men, my age ,they really have turned my pump on. Thank you to all you masculine mature men who have opened another door in my life. I'd welcome any comment or communication with you cheers
Im 47 and have had trouble with getting and maintaining an erection for ever. About 5 years ago I stopped getting my morning one and then stopped getting any at all a year after that. In that year my Doctor put me on a statin for cholesterol and a blood pressure medication. Then gave my cialis for daily use at 10 mg . I was then able to get an hard for a few years but that stopped working also until I stopped all prescription meds and went with herbs to control blood pressure, cholesterol with good success. I also started taking a hormone regulating herb called DIM which gave me back my morning wood and also helped me get quicker erections in general. If I skip the morning or evening dose no morning wood the next morning. For all who are interested research phytoestrogens in males. Thats what steered me in the right direction. Any other questions feel free to ask.
So taking DIM help????? This DIM product is it over the counter product. Something that can be bought at a health nutrition store? Please let me know. I am willing to try anything.
How do you deal with your ED? My answer is, not very well.How do you cope with being unable to sport an erection?
I see that this topic started 3 years ago.
At the age of 58 as I am now, I can only get fully erect when reading or watching certain porn stories/video's ! When reading the stories, I can stay erect for a good 30 mins or more, depending on how good the story is and also my vivid imagination.
I started to lose my erections some years ago, the relationship I was in back then was not very touchy feely, or rather he wasn't, as he didn't think he had to make the effort to participate in foreplay and the afterglow, as long as he got what he wanted, it didn't matter about me. Plus being on BP meds and also being diagnosed as Type 2 Diabetic within the last year has not helped, plus all the meds I now have to take.
Have any of you suffered with premature ejaculation also ? My frenulum has become really sensitive over these past years, and if I do masturbate, I am lucky if I get past 3-5 minutes before I cum, I used to enjoy hour long or more jerk sessions.
I also found out from the net, that Beta Blocker meds also have a habit of switching off the receptor in your body that helps you get erect and stay so. Why can't they make the damn meds so that they don't do this to you ? I also used to take Viagra, I only found I got a headache if I used 100mg, I personally found 75mg perfect for me, but each of us is different with meds. But since I also had a mild heart attack, I can no longer take or use Viagra or Cialis for the risk of having another heart attack.
I do agree with what someone says on here that sensual touch can and would hopefully help with someone maintaining an erection, plus it also comes down to a certain level of trust over time, failing that you can still love each other and enjoy some hot kissing and cuddling sessions. I also found that my testosterone levels are lower than normal, but the damn doctors would not give me anything to help boost that, which pisses me off as I, even at 58 have a right, as we all do to enjoy and have a fulfilling sexual life.